Seriously?

Inconsiderate
adjective
thoughtlessly causing hurt or inconvenience to others.

Self-obsessed
adjective:
excessively preoccupied with one's own life and circumstances; thinking only about oneself.

Callous
adjective
showing or having an insensitive and cruel disregard for others.

One should know certain important and very basic things if you're gonna go through the whole reproduction thing.

Fer instance, using children as tools/weapons in your battles with an ex or soon to be ex-spouse is NOT cool…NOT cool at all.

For starters children aren’t pawns to be played in vindictive deathmatch emotional games. They’re human beings and they are aware. Having their parents split up is painful for them too. Yeah I know – shocking! Who knew?

The father (or mother but not in this case) MAY consider himself to be purely angelic BUT, ya know, to qualify for celestial being-hood you need to, fer instance, be present (not running off, half a country away, for close to year,. you need to provide both financial and emotional support. Yeah, that’s pretty key. And here’s a good one – angel dads are NOT booze pushers or gaslighters. That’s some sick shit right there. Plus, I hear tell the pro angel leagues really, totally frown on that – it’s a stone disqualifier. You get your ass tossed to the curb and shit.

Now, I get it – the DQed spouse is all hurt that the meal ticket and status provider gave him/her a pink slip. Here’s the deal though, life isn’t a no-holds-barred emotional death-match. Retaliating with fucked up, dangerous lies and spreading insane stories about your soon-to-be ex are, ultimately, hurting your children.

Has the kicked-outta-kingdom spouse thought beyond winning custody (through shameless lies and deceit)? Ya know, has he/she considered that, if the kids are living with him/her, she/he needs to spend money on them – food, clothing, school supplies and such. Yes, there’s child support bucks if you’re lucky but, guess what? That money is for the kids NOT you!

What the children want HAS to be considered – where and with whom THEY want to live. Has that been examined? No, of course not – in this case, the children are just bludgeons to serve vengeance needs.

Using your kids like this is straight up heartless. Not only that, it constitutes very real child abuse.

That’s the main game for miscreants. Paybacks and damn the price your theoretical loved ones will pay.

There’s a name for people who act like this – sociopath.

Also too, motherfucking diseased shitbag but I don’t think you can find that one in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorder.